We do not refer anything that we have not read, listened to, or personally experienced. Below you will find a curated collection of our personal products, our favorite books, and a list of podcasts and articles organized by topic. We believe your marriage has a 100% chance of success if you do it God’s way and not your own. It’s our hope that these resources support your pursuit of building a biblical marriage.
Our Internal Resources
One-On-One Marriage Coaching with Dale and Veronica
Dale and Veronica offer 60-min, video call marriage coaching sessions to Christian couples as their schedules permits. This is a paid service for $249/session. You can apply to book a session here.
6-Week Marriage Mentor Program
We offer a comprehensive, 6-week marriage training program which includes: Six 30-45-min teaching videos, six Marriage Challenge Checklists, and a private online community to connect with other Christian couples. You can enroll here.
3-Day Ultimate Marriage Retreats
Twice per year, we host 15 couples in the mountains of Oregon on a private 250-acre ranch. Each retreat is a three-day experience designed to teach couples how to live out the Bible’s design for a beautiful, powerful, and exciting marriage. Apply to attend here.
The Ultimate Marriage Podcast
A new episode every Wednesday! With almost 100,000 monthly downloads, the Real Christianity podcast ranks as a top 100 Christian podcasts and is currently the highest rated marriage podcast in the world. Listen on iTunes, YouTube, Spotify, or Google Play
Free 365 Bible Reading Plan
We believe you can’t build a biblical marriage if you haven’t read the Bible. In just four chapters per day, you can finish the Bible in one year. Download it for free here.
A profound read and likely our favorite marriage book. The premise: Happy is good. But holy is better. Your marriage is more than a sacred covenant with another person. It is a spiritual discipline designed to help you know God better, trust him more fully and love him more deeply. What if God’s primary intent for your marriage isn’t to make you happy . . . but holy? Buy on Amazon.
The Meaning of Marriage
A marriage classic that we believe is theologically sound and paints an honest picture of God’s design for marriage. Veronica and I listened to the audiobook in 2016 and have recommended it to many couples since. But on Amazon.
Love & Respect
This book is based on Ephesians 5:33 “Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.” The book makes biblical roles simple—the husband’s role is to love and the wife’s role is to respect. Buy on Amazon.
Marriage after God
Our best friends Aaron and Jennifer Smith have written a book! Through fresh biblical insight and intimate stories of their own struggles and victories, this book will guide you toward a God-centered, ministry-minded, and thriving marriage. Buy on Amazon.
Shepherding a Child’s Heart
This is probably the greatest parenting book that has ever been written. In our opinion, it is a great book to lay the foundation for God-centered parenting. The instruction is highly practical and heavy in truth. Buy on Amazon.
This is the perfect companion to the book above. Interestingly, the authors of these two books are brothers. Parenting is a more theological and grace-filled approach and compliments his brother’s book which is heavy on biblical truth. Buy on Amazon.
Don’t Make Me Count To Three
A highly practical book for mothers of toddlers. Veronica read this book and immediately implemented its principles into our family. Our favorite tip was a line the author says to her children, “Right away, all the way, with a happy heart.” Buy on Amazon.
Books For Husbands
Wild at Heart
A classic read for all Christian men. Most men are more broken than they even realize. This book helps redeem what manhood is in the eyes of God. Buy on Amazon.
Voddie Baucham is a straight shooter with raw truth. This book helps men understand the gravity of their role in leading their family. It’s practical and also theologically powerful. Buy on Amazon.
Every Man’s Battle
For those struggling with sexual sin or pornography, this book offers a strong theological strategy to overcoming sexual brokenness. While I (Dale) don’t agree with everything in the book, it’s a good read for anyone fighting in this territory. Buy on Amazon.
Books For Wives
100 Days of Blessing Devotional
Mothers and wives, this book is incredible! These devotions will challenge, refresh and fortify you as you fulfill your great task of training the next generation who will determine the destiny of this nation. Buy on Amazon.
Home Management: Plain and Simple
Probably one of Veronica’s favorite books. Managing a busy home is a serious undertaking, with many tasks to face and obstacles to overcome This sensible and straightforward how-to manual is filled with systematic procedures, easy-to-understand organizational advice, with tips and hints for managing a bustling home with greater efficiency–all in a way that honors God and builds family relationships. Buy on Amazon.
Marriage & Family Podcasts
This is obviously our podcast but we didn’t want anyone to not realize that we have a weekly show. With over almost 100,000 monthly downloads, Ultimate Marriage is one highest ranking marriage podcasts in the world. What makes our show unique is how we tackle hard topics that most Christians avoid. Listen on iTunes, YouTube, Spotify, or Google Play
Marriage After God
Hosted by our best friends Aaron and Jennifer Smith, they bring a solid biblical perspective to a variety of topics. Each episode will focus on relevant marriage issues including intimacy, healthy living, boundaries, pornography, biblical living, tips for families, parenting and more. Listen here.
Busy Mom with Heidi St. John
Heidi is a family friend and a bold speaker of truth. The mother of seven children speaks deep biblical truths to a broken world. We have enjoyed her shows, guests, and commentary and believe you will too. Listen here.
At Home with Sally Clarkson
This is one of Veronica’s favorite shows. Sally is an older woman with a trainload of biblical wisdom when it comes to building and making a home. Her soft tone yet uncompromising truth is unique and enjoyable. Listen here.
Courageous Parenting is a weekly podcast for Christian parents who want to equip confident Christian kids in an uncertain world. Listen here.
This podcast by our mentors Matt and Lisa Jacobson is where they pursue biblical Christianity on the topics of marriage, parenting, church, and culture. Biblical teaching, practical real-life instruction, and lots of encouragement! Listen here.
Articles & Podcasts By Topic
- Why Praying For The Strength To Quit Pornography Won’t Help You
- How To Overcome Sexual Trials and Trauma In Your Marriage
- How To Experience God’s Design For Marital Sexuality
- Our 3 Rules For Creating An Affair-Proof Marriage
- How The Mature Christian Couple Views Modesty
Walking Out Your Biblical Roles
- The Basics of a Biblical Marriage
- The Biblical Roles of a Husband and Wife
- How A Wife Can Motivate Her Husband To Be The Spiritual Leader
- How a Husband Can Help His Wife Become a Biblical Woman
Conflict & Forgiveness
- How To Confess, Repent, and Redeem Sin in Your Marriage
- Dale and Veronica’s 4-Part Process For Fighting, Forgiving, and Forgetting
- Five Biblical Steps For Handling Holiday Family Conflict
Children & Family
- How Many Children Should Christians Have? A Biblical Perspective
- The Daily Routine That Keeps Our Family Close To God
- Our Companion Ministry: RelearnChurch.org
- What is Biblical Church?
- House Church Part #01: What Does is Really Look Like?
- House Church Part #02: How does giving, children, leadership, and evangelism work?
We are constantly looking for ways to add biblical value to couples. If you have any questions or suggestions, please email us at email@example.com